Tuesday, 3 July 2012
How do I get my man to want me?
Hey ladies, So I seem to start most entries with "sorry I havent blogged in so long.." but I genuinely am sorry, I also apologise for the fact this blog is not related to fashion beauty or my new home! As a lot of you know the background between my boyfriend and I, I dont feel so uncomfortable posting this on here. For those that don't here is a brief synopsis; I am 24 and my boyfriend is in his early 30s. We met a couple of years ago in Australia where we were both travelling. He expressed a lot of interest but I was initially worried due to the age gap. Eventually I conceded to a date and we have been together ever since, when we left Australia and came back to Manchester (where we are both from) we moved in together and ended up buying a house. We are very much in love and I feel very lucky. He tells me he loves me all the time, he is the most kissy and cuddle man I have ever been with, he looks after me and protects me, he makes me laugh and tells me I am beautiful. He cooks dinner and cleans up after himself. He is generous and spoils me. Sounds perfect? Nearly. But there is one problem. He doesn't seem to want to have sex with me! Okay, I am kind of being OTT. It just feels ike he doesn't, but it would be a lie to say that he never does. We do it about once a week or once every 2 weeks more like. The sex is very perfunctionary and there is not much spice. He doesnt stimulate me before we get going and we dont have oral sex anymore. When we first got together we had sex a lot, although it was always just in bed, but we tried different positions and would end up shagging most days. He also would go down on me at least once a week and he knows I go wild for it, but he doesnt anymore. Nowadays we will have sex on a Saturday night if we go to bed at the same time. We will lie in bed for ages before anything happens. He will climb on top of me with a hard on and thats how I know what he wants. He will shag me until he comes, and even if I havent had an orgasm he wont attempt to satisfy me. Dont get me wrong, I love this man and want to marry him - we have a house together and I know he loves me. He isnt gay, he doesnt watch porn and he isnt cheating on me....so what is it? Its beginning to affect my confidence! Girls, I always listen to and appreciate your advice so please help me here. You know what to do - inbox my facebook http://www.facebook.com/hollybeautyqueen?ref=tn_tnmn Love you all x